plugin: parallel release fetches, faster shutdown, uninstall runner stop

- Run Plugin Manager release fetches on OS threads so they execute in

  parallel instead of serialising on the async executor.

- Reduce V4Connection shutdown poll from 3s to 100ms; the runner is killed

  and reaped without blocking host shutdown.

- Add PluginManager::remove and PluginProcess::shutdown_and_wait so

  uninstall can stop the runner before deleting files, fixing Windows

  access-denied errors on plugin removal.

- Rebuild ribbon immediately after uninstall so the tab disappears.

src/app/update/mod.rs

@@ -5990,11 +5990,16 @@ impl OpenCADStudio {
             Message::PluginUninstall(id) => {
                 #[cfg(not(target_arch = "wasm32"))]
                 {
+                    // Stop the plugin runner first so Windows releases the DLL
+                    // and allows the package directory to be deleted.
+                    crate::plugin::external::remove_plugin(&id);
                     match crate::plugin::external::uninstall(&id) {
                         Ok(()) => {
                             self.marketplace_status =
-                                format!("Uninstalled '{id}'. Restart to unload it.");
+                                format!("Uninstalled '{id}'.");
                             self.plugin_load_errors.remove(&id);
+                            self.loaded_plugin_ids.remove(&id);
+                            self.rebuild_ribbon_modules();
                             self.external_plugins = crate::plugin::external::discover();
                         }
                         Err(e) => {