feat: web automation wrapper (#1349), DATALINK table on web, System theme; honest decode accounting

Ported from 2c38de53 (#1717). Main already carries the hatch PDF draw
order fix (#1345), the numeric set_properties compare (#1348) and the
web open from bytes, so those parts stay out; what remains:

#1349 — window.ocsControl.ready/request promise wrapper with an
ocs-ready event (web/ocs-control.js, loaded by the web page), and the
startup donation prompt is suppressed once a control request is seen
(opt-in pre-boot via localStorage["opencadstudio.automation"] = "1").
docs/automation/web.md documents both. The control protocol stays at 1.

DATALINK CSV-to-table works on web (picker + bytes through the session
registry — was std::fs, silently dead); COLORSCHEME accepts System
(prefers-color-scheme on web, AppsUseLightTheme on Windows).

Decode accounting, made honest per the fix-of-fix review: into_rgba8
allocates the RGBA destination while the native buffer is alive for
every non-Rgba8 layout (L8 5, La8 6, Rgb8 7, L16 6, La16 8 B/px
peaks — the formula now says so), GIF bills the screen+frame
coexistence at 8 B/px, and TIFF drops the 3x multipliers both ways —
tiff 0.11 splits the given budget between frame and scratch (a total
ceiling), so the old double-billing refused honest 16-bit GeoTIFFs
~2.25x early while admitting hostile chunk transients at 3x.

(cherry picked from commit 2c38de53)

Cargo.toml

@@ -169,6 +169,9 @@ web-sys = { version = "=0.3.85", features = [
     "EventInit",
     "EventTarget",
     "BeforeUnloadEvent",
+    # COLORSCHEME SYSTEM resolves prefers-color-scheme through a media
+    # query listener read at boot and on every re-run.
+    "MediaQueryList",
     "console",
     "Node",
     "HtmlElement",